Why are cats grumpy? It isn’t that they’ve developed a bad reputation for no reason. Firstly, there’s the tendency to bite you mid-cuddle. They also make their disgust known if you’re even a second late for dinner time. Then there’s the swipe if you dare pat them for too long. Not to mention the many times they determinedly ignore you when you call their name.
Let’s be honest: there’s even a viral meme known simply as “grumpy cat.”
So even true cat lovers had to have wondered “why are cats grumpy?” at some point – admit it! But wonder no more. Usually, your cat is grumpy or cranky for one of these three main reasons. Which one fits your cat?
1. They’re born that way
It’s true that some cats, like some humans, are simply born with a moodier temperament than others. British anthrozoologist John Bradshaw says cats’ ability to be social is quite recent. It hasn’t been long (in terms of evolution) since they were hunting machines who had no need for social interaction with humans. So maybe some cats are just more evolved than others…?
Added to that, there’s the nature vs nurture debate. If a kitten receives very little socialisation when they’re young, they’re unlikely to grow into cats who are overly friendly with their people.
2. It’s not me, it’s you
You may not want to hear this one but… sometimes, cats are grumpy because of their owners. And not just because you didn’t buy them that premium cat insurance policy to protect their health (though you should do that too!) or feed them fish for dinner.
Research by animal behaviour experts demonstrates there is a link between a cat’s well-being and its owner’s behaviour. Just like how parents’ personality traits and behaviour can affect how their kids behave and act, the same is true of their cats.
So basically, if you’re very skittish or affectionate and loving, your cat might be too. And if you’re grumpy… well… we’ll let you figure it out.
3. Something is wrong
If your cat has a bad attitude (or is that cat-itude?) there may be an underlying reason for it. Cats who are sick, scared, or in pain can go from sweet and placid to grumpy and even aggressive very quickly.
Watch out for changes in their habits that correlate with their newfound grumpiness. If your cat is eating or drinking differently, is hiding or refusing to be touched, or seems generally unlike themselves, there could be something wrong with their health.
If your cat is protecting something (like kittens, space, or food!) they can be grumpy too. They don’t always share too well either, so make sure your grumpy cat has a space where they can relax, get away from other pets or kids, and generally get some peace and quiet.
If you’re concerned about your cat’s behaviour, it’s always best to have them checked out by a vet in case there is anything untoward happening. They might be injured or ill and need treatment ASAP.
We all know vet care can be costly, but forward-thinking cat parents who have taken out affordable pet insurance are always relieved to know their furry friend can receive quality medical treatment without it breaking the bank.